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signing before they speak

I was recently presented with this article about sign language for children and the benefits of it, and asked to share it on my blog.  After seeing one of my good friends teach her baby sign language several years back and how well he responded to it, I always knew I would do this with my children.  I thought mostly for my benefit, so I would be able to know what they wanted before they could form the words. But now I see it’s not just for my benefit – it’s for theirs too.

This article is jam packed full of great information, so I encourage you to take a few moments to read it and consider starting sign language with your children.  Munchkin and I have been working on some basic words for a while now, and although she looks at me like I’m a nutcase right now, soon enough she’ll be showing me signs and cutting down on frustrations of our communication barrier!

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Early Childhood Education – Acquiring Sign Language

One of the keys to surviving in a tilted economic system in which opportunities to achieve a decent standard of living will be limited is versatility – and the ability to communicate articulately in a variety of ways with the widest possible audience. This includes bilingual ability as well as the ability to communicate in non-verbal ways for the benefit of the disabled – primarily the deaf.

At the same time, a growing shortage of qualified interpreters fluent in American Sign Language has led to more career opportunities – and if current trends continue, it’s likely that skilled ASL interpreters will have little problem securing lucrative employment in a society where such a commodity is destined to be in short supply.

Signing Before They Can Speak

A great deal of research has clearly demonstrated that the early years – ages 2 to five – are the best time to educate children in different modes of communication and language. This goes beyond the spoken word (though it is an optimal time for children to learn a second language); many young children have an aptitude for signing as well.

This is not as odd as you may think. As you know, many indigenous peoples around the world, including American Indian nations, have used sign language for centuries to facilitate communication with other tribes with whom they do not share a language. Some paleontologists and anthropologists theorize that Neanderthals – who apparently lacked the vocal mechanism to produce many spoken words – depended a great deal upon hand gestures to communicate.

In fact, recent research suggests that sign language is innate. An article published in the Boulder Daily Camera in 2003 presented strong evidence that babies as young as six months old communicate with their hands:

“…by 6 to 7 months, babies can remember a sign. At eight months, children can begin to imitate gestures and sign single words. By 24 months, children can sign compound words and full sentences. They say sign language reduces frustration in young children by giving them a means to express themselves before they know how to talk.” (Glarion, 2003)

The author also cites study funded by the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development demonstrating that young children who are taught sign language at an early age actually develop better verbal skills as they get older. The ability to sign has also helped parents in communicating with autistic children; one parent reports that “using sign language allowed her to communicate with her [autistic] son and minimized his frustration…[he now] has an advanced vocabulary and excels in math, spelling and music” (Glarion, 2003).

The Best Time To Start

Not only does early childhood education in signing give pre-verbal youngsters a way to communicate, it can also strengthen the parent-child bond – in addition to giving children a solid foundation for learning a skill that will serve them well in the future. The evidence suggests that the best time to start learning ASL is before a child can even walk – and the implications for facilitating the parent-child relationship are amazing.

Co-written by Emily Patterson and Kathleen Thomas

Emily and Kathleen are Communications Coordinators for the network of Georgia educational child care facilities belonging to the AdvancED® accredited family of Primrose educational child care schools. Primrose Schools are located in 16 states throughout the U.S. and are dedicated to delivering progressive, early childhood, Balanced Learning® curriculum throughout their preschools.

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If you have used or are using sign language with your child(ren), did you use a certain curriculum? Did you find that DVDs helped them learn?


tv for a baby?

Call me a terrible mom, but sometimes I plop munchkin in front of the tv so I can get a few things done around the house.  She is mesmerized. I mean come on, I let her watch educational stuff like Veggies Tales, Baby Einstein, and CSI Dora.

I recently read an article that claimed that children who watch a lot of tv will have a smaller vocabulary and talk less by the age of three. I struggle sometimes to believe all the piles of “studies and statistics” out there. Because afterall,  60% of the time it works every time.  I’m not convinced that my child will talk less because she watches a little of the tube here and there.  Maybe I should make her watch more so she won’t talk my ear off??

What do you think? Is tv ok or bad news bears for little ones?

Disclaimer — I do NOT let my 5 month old watch tv all day. Maybe 30 minutes or so a day, just to keep her entertained so I can take a nap do dishes.  I’m not a terrible mother.

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daddy date nights

To say my daughter has a great daddy would be a major understatement. And seriously, I’m not just trying to get bonus points or something here. I am married to an incredible man who loves me with all of his heart, and adores our daughter. She lights up everytime he walks in the room, and she’s started doing this adorable little pout every time she can see him. We have ourselves a little daddy’s girl in the works.

Since I am a SAHM, he doesn’t get as much time with her as me. He gets home around 6pm, and she goes to bed at 8pm. So we try to pack in as much fun time with dad while he’s home. Even though he’s only been a husband for 2 1/2 years, and a daddy for 5 1/2 months, he’s really got this family stuff figured out. We are FIRST. We are his world, and spending time with us is always his priority. {If you are a man who has happened to stumble upon my blog, this is a serious turn on. Just remember that}

Now that we are a little more settled into life as a family of three, and the munchkin is on a pretty good daily schedule and the colic is gone…mommy needs time. Time to collect my thoughts, to just sit in quiet mostly. So daddy has started “daddy date nights” with her, which I know she will grow to love as she gets older.

I’m so thankful that she has such a great daddy to learn from, and compare all the boys she will ever meet to. Not sure how she will find a man that even begins to match the qualities her father has, but maybe that will keep her away from them longer. No? Oh right, she is her mother’s daughter afterall :)

Do your kids do something fun like this with dad? If you have multiple kids, do they have individual date nights with daddy?

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tacos anyone?

Its amazing how things that were just a little irritating before having a baby, are now enough to make a mom turn into a crazy person. Like the lady that lives below us and smokes on her patio all day and night and sends smoke into our condo. Or the distracted dude on his cell phone who cuts you off. Hello, baby on board!!

Yesterday, my baby was awakened by chainsaws outside our house.

Yes, CHAINSAWS. Are you kidding me?!? Chainsaws?? Now this normally this would have bothered me anyway, but poor munchkin had a rough night and was cutting a new tooth. So I was super upset that she couldn’t get her much needed beauty sleep.

If I could speak Spanish, those workers would have gotten a piece of my mind, but since all I can say is taco I decided to keep my mouth shut so they didn’t think I was inviting them in for lunch.

Have things like this happened to you? What types of things bother you more as a mom that didn’t before?

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the trouble with napping – part 2

Last week I blogged about the trouble we have with napping.  Munchkin would never nap in her crib, and naptime was a constant fight in our house.  Literally the day I wrote that blog, she napped in her crib.

WHAAAT?!?! I think next time I want her to do something, I’ll just blog about it because apparently she’s reading my blog?

Thank you for your tips on napping and I want to encourage all you mommies out there who are struggling with the same napping struggles I was having. It took us 5 months, but she is officially a GREAT napper and an amazing 12-13 hour per night sleeper.  Yes, my child is a rockstar. Ok, I’m gonna stop bragging now because she’ll decide to pop another tooth and stop sleeping.

Here’s to napping!!

i'm no germaphobe

I’m not your “typical mom”.  I like germs.

I can’t stand to live in filth, which my house is about 98% of the time because I’m a mom to an infant. But we get by. I manage to clean occasionally, but the dust is all the bothers me.  Germs are awesome.  I’m the mom that picks the paci or toy up off the floor and puts it straight back into the kid’s mouth.  I don’t hand sanitize every five minutes, and I let the dog lick her face.  I let her play in the ball pit. I actually look forward to the day she eats dirt.


That’s just the kind of mom I am.  Why?

Because I honestly think it’s best for my kid.  I think it’s good to build her immune system, and let her get a little dirty.  I shocked myself when I became this mom, but here I am.  A germ-loving, dirty eating, roll in the grass kind of mom.

What kind of mom are you? Germaphobe or Germ-loving? What is your reasoning?


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the trouble with napping

Our little munchkin has struggled with napping from day one.  She’s so stinkin’ alert, and hates to miss anything going on around her.  She hates laying down unless it’s night and she’s going to bed (and there she’s a rockstar, but I’ll wait for another day to brag discuss that). So I’ve never been able to just lay her down in her bed during the day and she go to sleep.  She just doesn’t get the concept of “naptime”.

I’ve tried desperately, even feeding her and then laying her in her crib once she’s drifted off…but somehow she knows and always wakes up ready to rock and roll.  Our swing has been a lifesaver.  She typically takes her naps in her swing because it’s the only way to get her to sleep.  That or the car. So if the swing doesn’t work, it becomes a “Target run” day and off we go just so she’ll nap.

Am I alone in the nap struggles? Will I ever be able to break her of the swing and get her to nap in her crib?? Nap tips welcome!!

baby crack

…and no, I’m not talking about that cute little be-hind. I’m talking about the insane toy that my child refuses to put down.  The moment she started teething, that thing went in her mouth and the only way it comes out is if food is going in.  It’s seriously like crack for babies.

It may be known worldwide as Sophie the Giraffe, but in our house…he’s Jeffery.  Jeffery goes everywhere we do an sees more drool than I’m sure he would like to.  He’s just a part of the family.

It literally will be the best $20 you ever spend on crack.

why compare?

I was out with a girlfriend and our kiddos yesterday and we got on the subject of how moms compare their kids.  It’s amazing how quickly moms fight to make sure their kid is the biggest, strongest and best at everything.

But there is a fine line between bragging, and comparing.


I got to thinking about this even more after our conversation.  Why do we as parents feel the need to compare our children? You better believe I’m gonna brag on my kid and share with the world every detail of her life. I mean come on, the fact that she can toot and spit up at the same time is AWESOME.

My kid came out practically a toddler and skipped the “baby” stage, therefore she has been a little more ahead of the curve on some things.  But there are also some things it took her longer to pick up on.  I hope that I am never the mother that is constantly comparing her children to others.  I hope I embrace every stage they are in, and don’t wish for more.

I encourage you moms & dads to not compare your kids! Be thankful for the blessings that they are, and thankful for the stage they are in.

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