this is my influence.

I’m sitting here trying to wrap my mind around this past weekend. How my world was rocked. I attended a blogging conference. But not just any blogging conference. This wasn’t your “learn about SEO and network” type of event. Yes, I walked away with a LOT of great information, but I also walked alway with my heart completely overflowing. I loved and was loved. I saw JESUS in the faces of each the women I met. 

And their hearts were exploding with the good news.

About 6 months ago I was ready to hit the delete button on this whole blogging/social media thing. I was just over it. I was over the drama, the competition, the hurt feelings. I have a crazy sensitive heart, and it is hard for me to get THIS vulnerable and get close to people I don’t “actually know”.

And then The Influence Conference came. When the girls emailed me to ask if I would be interested in coming on board with this brand new adventure as one of their community leaders, I just knew right away this was going to be something different. After praying about it and talking to my hubby, we just knew this was something God was calling me to. Wow, I glad I said yes!!

Yes, we had a fun weekend. We ate too much, slept too little and learned a lot. BUT for me it was about the community. I’ve had several people ask me what my favorite part was, and by far it was making connections with these women.


Taking my online relationships to real life friends.
My sisters in Christ.

This is a family. A place where we leave our stats at the door, and become the same. A people that whether you have a mega ginormous blog or you just logged on to the internet for the first time yesterday, we are equal.

Your influence matters, and if you touch the heart of ONE person, that’s all that it’s about.


I’m still trying to figure out my thoughts and how amazing it really was, and honestly I’m not sure my heart will ever fully grasp how amazing this community is. I’m just thankful to be a tiny piece of the puzzle.

The exciting news? We’ll be back next year!! If you are interested in attending and getting a super early bird ticket at a crazy low price, there are only a few of those on sale today!

There are more exciting things to come in 2013 with this community of women.
Get excited, y’all. This is the real deal. 


  1. Loved getting to finally meet you and connect with you on such a deeper level this weekend! You are an amazing woman of God, and I’m so blessed to know you, Kara-Kae!

  2. kara kae!!! girl… it was so nice to meet you and HUG you!! we didnt get to chat much, but i am so thankful for the opportunity to know you through this little giant very real internet world we live in. =) you shine with the love of jesus in every way… especially in setting such an awesome example as a mother… love you!!

  3. Kara kae- you are one of the most sweetest lady that I’ve met! Loved getting to chat with you! And laugh over Britney writing letters to you in her choc?:)

  4. It was wonderful to watch all of you sisters get together via Twitter & IG…I can’t wait to read more and hope to meet some of you ladies too one day!

  5. Kara-Kae, you are amazing. I am SO grateful to have spent time with you this weekend. You are a LIGHT, a wonderful lady, and such a servant. Thanks for serving all of us.

  6. You were such a blessing this weekend :). Thanks for everything you did!

  7. It was so nice to meet you this weekend. I just wanted to let you know that your gentle gracious heart was visible and apparent in how you connected with people. I didn’t get a chance to talk to you much but I loved your heart for the mom’s night and trying to connect everyone together. Unfortunately, I was zonked and had to go pass out in my room but still, looking forward to getting to know you more.

    • It was such a joy to meet you!!! Thank you so much for your kind words, it is such a blessing to hear that!!! So excited to get to know you better now!!!

  8. You were truly a blessing to me this weekend. I am glad you obeyed God when he asked you to go! Love you lots and already miss you tons!

  9. Love the way you described Influence Conf–I think you’re spot on! And I’m so glad I got to meet your sweet self in person this weekend!

    • Oh Anne, you seriously blew me away. Thank you thank you THANK YOU!!! God is doing a BIG work in you and blessing so many. It was a privilege to be a part of this weekend with you and hear your heart!

  10. Seriously wish I had way more one on one time with you. You are so precious! Plus I just realized I have not ONE photo with your beautiful face!!!!!

    • UGH! Why didn’t I pack you in my suitcase and bring you home with me?!?! I need MUCH more time with you next time!

  11. I watched your IG feed all weekend and it looked like a total blast. I just clicked the link but the 10 early bird tickets are sold out. Due to what I’ve read and seen I really really want to go. I had trouble at my very first conference (blogher) and felt completely overwhelmed and unhappy. I really want to attend a conference where I feel like I’m being seen and heard. This seems like it.

    • Those tickets sold out SO FAST! Which is awesome but also a total bummer ;) I really hope you can make it next year, it was truly amazing. I think it will be hard to do another conference after this!!

  12. I anxiously watched twitter all weekend and felt so full and happy reading all the tweets, even though I wasn’t there. I wish I would have known about influence and gone, I can’t believe what God has done in my life through blogging and I would love to share that with my sisters. Gosh I cant wait to hear more about what you learned, your favorite memories and how you grew!

  13. It was a BLESSING meeting you, and I REALLY hope I get to go next year!

  14. looks and sounds like you all had an amazing time!

    Sandy a la Mode

  15. kara-kae i loved hearing your two scents on this fabulous weekend. i’m still in a bit of a glorious fog from it all.
    the worship was the highlight for me. and being there with my sister. how the Lord knows what he needs.
    thanks for all your hard work!

  16. what we need, i mean! (i’m tired)

  17. It looks/sounds like you had an amazing time! So thankful for your time of fellowship and filling up! You have such a ministry through your blog, it’s so great you were able to connect with other women doing the same thing! Thanks for sharing your heart momma! Keep it up!

  18. KK! I am so glad we got to meet. & i am so glad you didn’t delete your blog! your heart for mommas with your meetup at influence and your 31 days series, and your encouragement to me and other single girls via twitter & in person this past weekend has been so encouraging to my heart & spirit. i’m looking forward to a cup of coffee with you next year! and in the meantime, we should chat soon! love you!

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